Is My Boyfriend Cheating On Me Signs – 7 Secret Ways To Know For Sure
These days men cheat without a reason. In other words, a lady does not have to offend her guy before he pulls a Judas by kissing her on the cheek and going all out to betray her love and trust. When this happens, you hit google and type in keywords such as is my boyfriend cheating on me signs or even how to tell if he is cheating. That’s fine but it pays to know the secret ways to know this without hitting the search engines.
Men cheat for several reasons such as emotional dissatisfaction, some have bad friends who cheat on their partners and as such encourage others to cheat on theirs claiming its fun and exciting while some men feel their mistress is more physically attractive than their wife (some women stop taking care of themselves after marriage and that’s a shame). Men also cheat when the home is troubled with unresolved regular fights. I’ve also heard some men cheat because their wives are experts at it thus leading the husband to pay her back while others cheat because they have been like that all their life. Whatever the case may be, there is no excuse to cheat. There is no winner in it.
Are there signs to know if your boyfriend is cheating on you? Of course! Here are 7 secret ways on how to tell if he is cheating.
1. Try And Observe A Change In His Sex Drive: If your partner is the type to always be eager to jump into bed with you and all of a sudden he starts avoiding sex with you and coming up with being tired after a hard days job, you might be in trouble. He is probably getting plenty of sex elsewhere with his mistress. Also look out to know if he has started asking for new sexual styles that are not usually his stuff. It’s not to say he hasn’t gotten curious from secretly watching porn or looking at dirty magazines.
2. Look Out If Your Man Has Started Paying More Attention To His Appearance Than Usual: The chance is that a cheating partner will be all out to groom himself to impress his mistress. He begins to shave more if he is the shaving type, the cheating guy may even begin to have his hair cut more frequently than usual, ooh my goodness, he begins to stare at the mirror so often that it may appear as though his life depends on it. Some guys may even forget themselves and have the cheek to ask their partner how they look only to come back late from ‘work’.
3. Be Sharp And Notice Any Change In The Way He Smells: Your a lady so you should be able to detect if your guy smells of another lady’s perfume, body lotion or even anything else feminine. It’s not impossible to find even tell-tale lipstick marks on his clothes. What you must not tolerate is when he rushes to shower before anything else as soon as he returns. Only then will he feel comfortable coming to hug you.
4. Are Your Family, Friends Or Even Colleagues Telling You That Your Partner Is Possibly Cheating On You?: The chance is that these people have your best interest at heart and as such, may be able to see things more objectively than you. As the spouse you may be living in denial when certain tell-tale signs of your partner cheating are there. Those trusted people close to you will see these signs and alert you immediately.
5. Check To See If All Of A Sudden He Is Now Making Calls, Texting And May Be Putting A Password On His Phone: Your partner who could give you his phone freely to make calls, send text messages all of a sudden barricades his phone from you. It becomes a no go area for you even to the extent that he may even snap at you if you pick it up when it rings. To make matters worse, he may puts a password on his phone! DO NOT TOLERATE A GUY WITH A PASSWORD ON HIS PHONE unless he gives you it. It gets even worse when the cheating boyfriend begins to talk and text at ungodly hours. These days, people love sex chat so look out to know if he has started snapping nude photos. Look out and observe if the ‘wrong number’ and the ‘hang-ups’ have increased. Also pay attention to know if the caller refuses to say anything despite you saying ‘hello’.
6. Your Home Becomes A Mere House: In this instance, you ought to know when a once peaceful and happy home becomes empty despite you both live in it. You and your ‘papa bom boy’ become distant. You begin to feel like strangers and he is not particularly too comfortable with you. His nasty and cold attitude may even also be targeted towards the kids. Don’t be surprised if he begins to pay more attention on your schedule so as to program his ungodly affair with his seductive mistress.
7. Look Out For Changes In The Car: By this I mean has the passenger’s seat been adjusted? Are there female strands of hair around? Some cheating partners are so in a hurry they forgot to put away items such as receipts, lipstick, phone numbers and YES, undies incliding bra!
Do not underestimate any of these tell-tale signs if you really want to know if your partner is cheating on you. Remember, you do not have to offend him before he reveals the ‘hegoat’ in him.
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