There are those who insist that besties of the opposite gender are lovers or will end up eventually falling in love with each other.
Hence, many find it extremely difficult to allow or take such friendships lightly as there could be some special “benefits” involved.
Many also insist that the partner should also play the role of best friend.
In a recent new Instagram post, Jumoke Odetola asked if her followers would approve of their partner being best friend with someone of the opposite gender.
“Would you approve your spouse have a bestie of the opposite gender?
Just gist partner ooo! Very good gist partner I mean? 😉 😉
On the movie set of MY HOME by @omobolanlesalisu
Directed by @saheedabolajioscar
Coordinated by @ayoolaiya
Cc: @femiadebayosalami @ayoolaiya”.
Peep the post below.
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Olasunkanmi Omobolanle: “Werrin him wan best wey Mee nor fit 😂😂 iya mi leave shit for shitta man Jare 😂😂😂😂😂 @jumokeodetola”.
dipoozil: “Hmmmm bestie with benefits. Capital no, laye ko jo”.
seunique29: “Oh gosh! I came late. E go hard sha, why can’t I be the bestie? To me attention is the main ingredient in any relationship, wetin come remain? I come in peace”.
fatimoh.salami.33: “Boo is be doing home services, while bestie is doing outdoor services😂😂😂😂😂 Bestie isonu😂😂”.
flora_divaa: “Me I destroyed their relationship, I’m now my man s bestie…he tells me everything…Nd I’m glad…”
i_am_fabfeb: “If the spouse is trustworthy,disciplined and transparent with me…yes”.
iamkingturun: “Waytin be bestie !!’ I was someone’s bestie I know the Kyn things I do Abeg bestie kor! Stibeh niii”.
mariamoluwaseunwaheed: “Hmmmm 🤔 E get as e be oooo, besties of opposite gender nowadays ehn lemme kip kwayet😂😂😂”.
moonbeamfabrics: “Not in my own Dictionary o.Both partners should be each others BESTIES anything outsides that is unacceptable”.
arana_ils: “My fiancee in Dubai as a bestie, she cook for him, buy things for him and all sorts and when I talk he say he is his bestie, and anytime he says that, I just smile but deep down my heart, that my smile is an awaiting moment…😂 No bestie anywhere”.
shollyoddy: “which of them is the husband and which one is the bestie because we cannot tell from these pictures o. You look loved up with both of them”.